Have you ever been abused, or your son? Have you ever had your heart broken? Why, explain why did you cheat on your husband? Why did you get a divorce from the first spouse? What did you see in the second one that made you want to marry them, and now want to leave? Why did your son leave to live with his Dad (your first husband)? Why did you let your son leave?
What did you feel that made you feel it is ok to have an affair? Why do you think you have heard the truth? What reasoning did you have that came that there is nothing wrong in what you are doing? Why am I the enemy in all this? Because I live in a home I buildt and have children? Do you think I am a useless human being who doesn’t deserve to be in this life?
I mean no harm, see you really don’t know me, do you? I am just asking what made you come to these decisions..no, I am not like you..ask me questions and I will expalin. Do you really know what I have lived with, thru the last 24 years? Do you really know me?
I am just trying to understand the reasoning in a woman’s head, that feels it is ok, they get up everyday and feel good about themselves..I could not..teach me, explain to me how and why..explain how you can live with a husband but feel so much for another..how you cannot get out of a bad relationship before beginning another?? What went wrong in your relationship’s that you went with another…not knowing or caring what the pain you would cause..did you not believe there would not be any…
Write what you feel, I for one will understand..my heart..you will never know..I wish you the best in this next journey of your life..one with another husband..no he was not single, divorced when you met..you knew that..explain to us..one’s who would not do that..why..and how you reason why it is ok..good luck to you and him..no, I will never meet you, we are not on the same path..I prefer a man, yes, a real man, who made decisions in his relationship before beginning another…they are more like me..not saying your wrong..just not like me…I believe in ones like me, sorry, I believe.
I hope the day doesn’t come when either of you feel things aren’t perfect..meet someone at hotels..love them..lie to the spouse, yes, cheat, explain how and why..we would love to hear..you are alone with me..maybe not with others. Is it that easy to leave a life you were building..is the next one better?
I wish you a relationship were there are no more hotels, secret phone calls, lies, meeting in secret and speaking bad of the other married one in your life..boy, help me understand the how, why and if it ever lasts??
I do not have it in me to hate..but I also do not have it in me to be like you..no, sorry…let me know how you feel ok in all you did…sorry you will never find me in a hotel with a married man..let me know how you did?
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